Internet Subculture and the JonBenet Ramsey Murder Case

The "LuckyLady" Story
Postings By "Gator" (aka) "Lucky Lady"
After the Death Announcement

Postings by Gater after the death of LuckyLady

"Lucky Lady's" husband, "Gator" Posts a message that his wife has died

FROM A POSTING ON THE WEBBSLEUTH'S FORUM: "she is gone!" Posted by Lucky Lady on 21:14:58 4/10/99 Include Original Message on Reply I regret to inform the JonBenet Ramsey web sight of the following news. Lucky Lady is not so lucky in this lifetime. My wife has passed on to be with her GOD! She will no longer be logging on to this sight to talk with you all. I am greatful that she had so many friends here to discuss this case with. If I had to listen to her all the time, I don't know if I'd have paid attention. Unfortunately, it is too late! Thank you all for your thoughts and prayers. Please continue to pray for our family in this time of mourning. Lucky Lady asked me to tell you all that she had some of her best times discussing this case with so many people, with so many opinions. She also asked me to tell "Murphy" and "Jameson" to expect some kind of contact from me from HEAVEN! I have no idea what she meant. I guess maybe you both know. She also said to say thank you to "Texas 1" for the wonderful prayer threads. And also to "Mantis G" ? for your dedication to the Boy Scout info. She really appreciated knowing that she offered some info that may lead in the right direction. And to everyone else who appreciated my "Lady's" posts, so long forever. I am not one to visit this forum and I am sorry for having to bring you all this sad news. Please do not try to contact me. Me and my children are not ready for any more trauma at this time. Thank you all for your understanding! Sincerely, Gator (she stole that nickname from me when she first joined your sight. Now I can reclaim it.)

After "Lucky Lady" passed away.

FROM A POSTING ON THE WEBBSLEUTH'S FORUM:

6. "Texas 1" Posted by Lucky Lady on 23:13:41 4/10/99 Include Original Message on Reply of all the nerve! You may believe what you will, but please let my family greive in peace!!!!!!!!!!!!! We are very hurt by your response, especialy since you had started the prayer threads. My wife would be very dissapointed in the way you responded to her passing! PLEASE LEAVE US TO OUR GREIVING! AT THIS TIME THIS IS WHAT WE NEED! GIVE US A BREAK. HOW INSENSITIVE!!!!!!!!! Good-bye---- Gator and children.

FROM A POSTING ON THE WEBBSLEUTH'S FORUM:

10. "I regret to inform you" Posted by Lucky Lady on 06:50:48 4/12/99 Include Original Message on Reply but Lucky Lady will no longer be with you all. I wrote Friday night to everyone on the JonBenet forum that my wife has passed on. She died on Friday 4-9-99. Someone must have deleted the post, because I went back to read what people had to say, and Texas 1 thought it was a hoax. It is not! I will be checking in to this sight one more time, this evening 4-12-99 to read any messages for me and my family. After that, I will not be back. My wife really loved this sight and everyone here. Take care of yourselves and I hope this case is solved soon. Sincerely, Gator( Lucky Lady's husband. She stole that from me.)

FROM A POSTING ON THE WEBBSLEUTH'S FORUM:

"To anyone who cares to know!" Posted by Gator on 21:54:02 4/23/99 Include Original Message on Reply I HAVE POSTED A RESPONSE IN THE "JURY ROOM" FOR THOSE WHO WANT ASSURANCE OF MY LADY"S PASSING! It is truely baffling that so many people think this is a joke or a hoax! Shawn loved this sight, and to be treated so cruely is saddning. Please remember her in your prayers, and also her family! And remember, GOD loves us all, and promises each and everyone of us a KINGDOM in HEAVEN if we truely believe in HIM and accept HIS SACRIFICE FOR US ALL! I know that is where my Lady is, and I look forward to seeing her again in HEAVEN! MAY THE GRACE OF GOD TOUCH YOU ALL AS IT HAS OUR FAMILY. AMEN! Gator

FROM A POSTING ON THE WEBBSLEUTH'S FORUM:

"My Lady is really gone!" Posted by Gator on 23:14:10 4/23/99 Include Original Message on Reply NOTE: THIS MESSAGE WAS LASTED EDITED ON 23:14:10, 4/23/99 It seems that people do not want to believe that Lucky Lady has passed on! It took me alot to be able to get access to this sight. If it were not for Shawn's final request to let you people know that she is with her Lord, I would not be typing this note! My persistance in letting you people know her last request is the only reason I have contacted this web sight. Accept it, or "flame it" if you want, but it is the truth, and I and MY CHILDREN must face it everyday! I truely hope this case is solved soon so Lucky Lady will be forgotten by such people who think so cruelly toward peoples last requests, even though you may have had simular pranks pulled on you all. Peace to JonBenet and to my BEAUTIFUL, LOVELY LUCKY LADY, who is TRUELY LUCKY TO SEE THE FACE OF OUR LORD, JESUS CHRIST! BELIEVE IT! GATOR! Shawn really loved the JonBenet sight, why, I don't know, but she did, and she made me promise that I would let you all know she was thinking of you all in her last thoughts.

FROM A POSTING ON THE WEBBSLEUTH'S FORUM:

3. "I have contacted Jameson and Texas 1" Posted by Gator on 22:08:07 4/23/99 Include Original Message on Reply as to our sorrow of my Lady's passing. If it takes an obituary for you people to believe, that can be arranged, but would you believe even that, I WONDER?

FROM A POSTING ON THE WEBBSLEUTH'S FORUM:

4. "Thank you Afton" Posted by Gator on 22:16:27 4/23/99 Include Original Message on Reply Shawn was taken to be with her LORD, by a blood clot that went to her heart. It was truely unexpected, since we thought everything was under control. Our children are very upset, but know that "mom" is with GOD, and they will one day be with her again! As for there ages, 10 year old girl, and 8 year old boy. I am not comfortable posting this info, but if this is what it takes to make you all believe, so be it! Please do not sent us ANYTHING because of our tragaty. We need nothing but the GRACE OF GOD to get us through this. For we truely believe that she is waiting for us in heaven! Thank you for your time, Gator (Jim)

FROM A POSTING ON THE WEBBSLEUTH'S FORUM:

6. "Thank you" Posted by Gator on 23:07:38 4/23/99 Include Original Message on Reply NOTE: THIS MESSAGE WAS LASTED EDITED ON 23:07:38, 4/23/99 Afton, for finally believing my sorrowful news. Your prayer posts ment alot to Shawn, and it hurt us so much when you posted your mistrust. I did not know about any fake posting concerning a hoax. I guess I might understand your hesitance in accepting my news. Unfortunately, it is true, and I guess I feel obligated to you all to let the truth be known. I hope you all will accept me, in place of my wife, to see what is happening on this sight. I want to understand what SHAWN saw in this sight. I never really wanted to listen to what she had to say about this case, but now, well i guess I feel I need to follow this case for her. Maybe she is driving me to seek the truth, but personally, I never really cared. Gator

FROM A POSTING ON THE WEBBSLEUTH'S FORUM:

8. "Webbcat" Posted by Gator on 23:12:32 4/23/99 Include Original Message on Reply I HAVE NO IDEA HOW TO CONTACT YOU OTHER THAN HERE. GATOR

FROM A POSTING ON THE WEBBSLEUTH'S FORUM:

10. "I truely appreciate" Posted by Gator on 23:26:56 4/23/99 Include Original Message on Reply NOTE: THIS MESSAGE WAS LASTED EDITED ON 23:26:56, 4/23/99 your response Afton. I have no idea who people are here, but for some reason, I feel compelled to seek solice in this web sight and the people who were in touch with my wife. Please bare with me, as I have not followed the reports of this case and will have to do much reading to understand the facts. Again, thank you for your acceptance. I feel truely LOST! Please PRAY FOR US. I firmly believe in GOD, but it does not take away the lonelyness. Gator Sorry, my spelling is not the best. I guess I better use the preview button first.

FROM A POSTING ON THE WEBBSLEUTH'S FORUM:

12. "Afton" Posted by Gator on 23:47:51 4/23/99 Include Original Message on Reply your response makes me feel somewhat better. I do not know what to do or how to act. People don't understand, until they loose someone this close. (My best friend ,and love of my life!).

FROM A POSTING ON THE WEBBSLEUTH'S FORUM:

1. "Good night all" Posted by Gator on 23:58:28 4/23/99 Include Original Message on Reply hope to stay in touch, to see what my Lady saw in this sight. God bless you all. Gator

FROM A POSTING ON THE WEBBSLEUTH'S FORUM:

16. "Webbcat" Posted by Gator on 11:51:51 4/24/99 Include Original Message on Reply you are correct. The clots were in the lungs. In my haste, I typed the wrong thing. I am sorry for the mistake. Gator

FROM A POSTING ON THE WEBBSLEUTH'S FORUM:

18. "Nebraskafriend" Posted by Gator on 05:38:10 4/26/99 Include Original Message on Reply Thank you for your reference to the Psalms. My Lady read them often. You are right, in this time of sorrow, even though we are surronded by caring family and friends, I still feel so alone! My children are lost without her, as I am. Please continue to pray for us all! Gator

FROM A POSTING ON THE WEBBSLEUTH'S FORUM:

20. "Ashley" Posted by Gator on 18:56:46 4/26/99 Include Original Message on Reply NOTE: THIS MESSAGE WAS LASTED EDITED ON 18:56:46, 4/26/99 it is people like you who give this sight a bad name. My wife talked about people like you here. If you don't have anything good to say, keep it to yourself. I don't think even a copy of the obituary would convinse you. May God forgive you! Gator

FROM A POSTING ON THE WEBBSLEUTH'S FORUM:

24. "Afton" Posted by Gator on 05:35:54 4/28/99 Include Original Message on Reply I thank you for your support and belief in my posts. Shawn LOVED this sight and I thought some connection could be obtained in posting here. It hurts me greatly that people would think this was all made up, but I guess that happened here before, from what I keep reading. My spelling is not very good. I have ADHA, as does my two children. We all have difficulty with spelling. If that makes me suspicious, so be it but Shawn was a good speller, so if our posts seem simular, she must not have worried that some people were judging her on her spelling. I know she typed fast, maybe she did not want to go back and fix her mistakes. I have no idea, but it does not matter anyway, because you will never see another post from her. I do not know if I will continue here or not. I do not seem to find much interesting news, and the hurtful postings are too much for me at this time. Thank you again Afton, and all who do believe me. I truely appreciate all your prayers and nice thoughts. Keep up the fight for JonBenet. I know that is what Shawn would want. Gator

FROM A POSTING ON THE WEBBSLEUTH'S FORUM:

28. "Afton" Posted by Gator on 05:29:38 4/29/99 Include Original Message on Reply Thank you for your support and kind words. I will e-mail you later today. LadyBug, the flames I talked about were concerning the disbelief that Shawn is gone. I guess I am just too emotional at this time and have a hard time hearing anything negetive concerning me or Shawn. Thinking this was a hoax, some people wrote things that upset me, but I guess I am wearing my feelings on the outside right now, and things upset me easier right now. Their disbelief just suprised me because I didn't know enough about the hoaxes from before, which caused others to be skeptical. I will try some other areas around here to see what is going on. Gator

FROM A POSTING ON THE WEBBSLEUTH'S FORUM:

30. "Afton" Posted by Gator on 17:17:22 5/01/99 Include Original Message on Reply you are welcome for the e-mail. I look forward to hearing back from you. Thank you for keeping me and my children in your prayers. Gator

FROM A POSTING ON THE WEBBSLEUTH'S FORUM:

34. "Mildred" Posted by Gator on 07:25:42 5/02/99 Include Original Message on Reply Thank you for making my mind up. I will no longer post here anymore. If I can not take solice here because I am posting when my wife died is to be judged so cruely, I do not want to be here. I do not know how you can be so cruel to someone you do not even know!! I am in complete agony over losing my wife, maybe I am not reacting the way you would, just like everyone would have acted differently in the JonBenet case. Goodbye, thank you for your support Afton, and everyone else who prayed for my children and me. God forbid anyone else should have to go through this!! Gator and children.

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